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<blockquote data-quote="So Tired" data-source="post: 144055" data-attributes="member: 4772"><p>Katya,</p><p> </p><p>I'm so sorry - I know how hard it is to be disappointed once again. To see a glimmer of hope for some sort of normalicy and then to find you have been lied to. Again. It is always so painful. </p><p> </p><p>It seems like husband is begining to see the light. I think everyone has their own idea of "the last straw" and maybe you have just reached that place first. </p><p> </p><p>I agree with the others - my son is the same. Needs to learn things the hardest way possible and never sees the results as his fault. Always trying to push blame on others. </p><p> </p><p>It sounds like you are doing all the right things. Stay stong and protect yourself and your home and family. Refuse to get sucked into the crazyness of his world.</p><p> </p><p>P.S. you don't have to let the new girlfriend hang out there. I'm sure your intuitions are spot on. If it is causing you stress tell him he has to "hang out" with her somewhere else. You don't have to justify to him! That is our biggest problem -- we keep treating them with kindness and respect and get none in return!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="So Tired, post: 144055, member: 4772"] Katya, I'm so sorry - I know how hard it is to be disappointed once again. To see a glimmer of hope for some sort of normalicy and then to find you have been lied to. Again. It is always so painful. It seems like husband is begining to see the light. I think everyone has their own idea of "the last straw" and maybe you have just reached that place first. I agree with the others - my son is the same. Needs to learn things the hardest way possible and never sees the results as his fault. Always trying to push blame on others. It sounds like you are doing all the right things. Stay stong and protect yourself and your home and family. Refuse to get sucked into the crazyness of his world. P.S. you don't have to let the new girlfriend hang out there. I'm sure your intuitions are spot on. If it is causing you stress tell him he has to "hang out" with her somewhere else. You don't have to justify to him! That is our biggest problem -- we keep treating them with kindness and respect and get none in return! [/QUOTE]
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