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<blockquote data-quote="Tania_port" data-source="post: 265203" data-attributes="member: 7201"><p>Dr Riley,</p><p> </p><p>I bought the explosive child because after all the post from the parents i thought it would help. It seems to me like with the cruelty to animals and children that my 5 year old is doing that its the defiants. About a month ago i overheard him talking to my 3 year old telling her that he can beat my husband,and he showed his muscles. My child is angry all the time and throws fits all day long over such small things. Hes like an emotional drama king. Over tiny things he get so mad. Like saying no to him. He thinks that he is equal to adults. I dont know what to do because its only getting worse. My husband and i have been married to for 2 years now and hes about feed up with my son. I dont think hes going to stick around much longer. Our Behavior therapist says that we gotta slow him down because his ADHD, to start and also we have a plan on his behavior and it consists of the time outs. What i want to know is if i have other kids then how can i actually have time for the other kids if i am so focused on my son at all times. I cannot even turn my back on him because hes likely to do something bad to my 3 year old or our cats. We have been so stuck on trying to make my son behave and we got nothing left to give the other kids. I feel bad for the other kids now because my son ***** up all the attention by acting out. Should we take specially time for the other kids? They are good kids and it feels unfair that they get hardly nothing. I think i might have bought the wrong book also. My husband read a little of the explose child but he doesnt think its going to work. What i told him is we have to try to defuse the fits he throws all day. Maybe that will give us some relief. And of course stick to the time outs that the therapist says my son needs. What i have been doing is sending him in the room until he can be quiet because he will scream at full force. Sometimes hes in there for 30 mins until he calms down. I dont spank and seems like last time we did time outs he didnt do well with that the behaviors kept being the same. Whats the best book for the difiant child that is 5? Hes very aggressive and abuse toward animals and children. Hes cut my cat with scissors and choked my girls a few different times. Hes not be diagnoised with anything for sure. But they think ADHD and mixed developement disorder,PTSD. Learning Disability (LD) they said. Its hard for me to believe because he thinks of lies so quickly he will look ya in the face and lie about all things. He just doenst care about anyone but himself. And his dad is a sociapath. I was with him for 7 years and we have 4 kids. Only the 1 son has his dads personality problem. His father isnt aggressive or physically abusive though. Any suggestions for my son? I dont think hes got the Learning Disability (LD) its his speach delay and plus he doesnt want to do anything unless its fun for him. If he doesnt see fun in it it he wont do it. Thanks for your time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tania_port, post: 265203, member: 7201"] Dr Riley, I bought the explosive child because after all the post from the parents i thought it would help. It seems to me like with the cruelty to animals and children that my 5 year old is doing that its the defiants. About a month ago i overheard him talking to my 3 year old telling her that he can beat my husband,and he showed his muscles. My child is angry all the time and throws fits all day long over such small things. Hes like an emotional drama king. Over tiny things he get so mad. Like saying no to him. He thinks that he is equal to adults. I dont know what to do because its only getting worse. My husband and i have been married to for 2 years now and hes about feed up with my son. I dont think hes going to stick around much longer. Our Behavior therapist says that we gotta slow him down because his ADHD, to start and also we have a plan on his behavior and it consists of the time outs. What i want to know is if i have other kids then how can i actually have time for the other kids if i am so focused on my son at all times. I cannot even turn my back on him because hes likely to do something bad to my 3 year old or our cats. We have been so stuck on trying to make my son behave and we got nothing left to give the other kids. I feel bad for the other kids now because my son ***** up all the attention by acting out. Should we take specially time for the other kids? They are good kids and it feels unfair that they get hardly nothing. I think i might have bought the wrong book also. My husband read a little of the explose child but he doesnt think its going to work. What i told him is we have to try to defuse the fits he throws all day. Maybe that will give us some relief. And of course stick to the time outs that the therapist says my son needs. What i have been doing is sending him in the room until he can be quiet because he will scream at full force. Sometimes hes in there for 30 mins until he calms down. I dont spank and seems like last time we did time outs he didnt do well with that the behaviors kept being the same. Whats the best book for the difiant child that is 5? Hes very aggressive and abuse toward animals and children. Hes cut my cat with scissors and choked my girls a few different times. Hes not be diagnoised with anything for sure. But they think ADHD and mixed developement disorder,PTSD. Learning Disability (LD) they said. Its hard for me to believe because he thinks of lies so quickly he will look ya in the face and lie about all things. He just doenst care about anyone but himself. And his dad is a sociapath. I was with him for 7 years and we have 4 kids. Only the 1 son has his dads personality problem. His father isnt aggressive or physically abusive though. Any suggestions for my son? I dont think hes got the Learning Disability (LD) its his speach delay and plus he doesnt want to do anything unless its fun for him. If he doesnt see fun in it it he wont do it. Thanks for your time. [/QUOTE]
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