<span style='font-size: 11pt'>I'm a big fan of kids separating from home. I have nudged my kids to find their own space. They come and go. easy child is out on his own at 18. He struggles but he also seems more adult like.
Good for your son for finding his own way. You are right, marrying a guy who lives with mom at 30 is a little disconcerting.
You can pamper him when he comes home to visit.
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