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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 266802" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I wondered how this would all come about when your easy child first moved out. As I recall it was largely because issues with difficult child.</p><p></p><p>difficult child is probably now to a size that if he wanted to force her to do something he could. If he was raging or even just obsessing about underwear and wanted hers, well, he could really hurt her.</p><p></p><p>Seeing as this is part of the problem, and how terribly violated she must have felt when even after interventions he STILL got to her private area and took her underwear, well, I can't see her willingly coming home. I know I wouldn't feel safe in her place, esp if I were home alone with him. I know you do your very best, but you simply cannot supervise someone 100&#37; of the time. </p><p></p><p>Hopefully you can still have her in a supervised home with friends until she goes to college. I can see having standards for grades, behavior, etc... but you are going to have to keep the reins loose.</p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs, and keep up with therapy with her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 266802, member: 1233"] I wondered how this would all come about when your easy child first moved out. As I recall it was largely because issues with difficult child. difficult child is probably now to a size that if he wanted to force her to do something he could. If he was raging or even just obsessing about underwear and wanted hers, well, he could really hurt her. Seeing as this is part of the problem, and how terribly violated she must have felt when even after interventions he STILL got to her private area and took her underwear, well, I can't see her willingly coming home. I know I wouldn't feel safe in her place, esp if I were home alone with him. I know you do your very best, but you simply cannot supervise someone 100% of the time. Hopefully you can still have her in a supervised home with friends until she goes to college. I can see having standards for grades, behavior, etc... but you are going to have to keep the reins loose. Gentle hugs, and keep up with therapy with her. [/QUOTE]
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