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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 646477" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>Well dad claims he doesn't want my help but needing little things now. Gpa called this morning to complain I didnt make new hot coffee for the lady coming in this morning at just after 5am. (I just made the pot yesterday and before I took over the other ladys time, they had to make coffee anyways) and complained I shouldn't wake my son up at 4am... So I reminded him we left last night at 11pm around and havent been back he got mad hung up. I locked the door last night so my dad went to unlock it for the lady after he called...and dad said it was unlocked. Gpa said he didnt unlock he claimed. Well I know I locked it. Anyways fast forward he called about his wheel chair wanting it in front of him making no sense, got mad that I didnt rush to get his wheelchair because I was in the middle of handling a tantrum with son.( son had broken a mug supposedly rolling it to hard to me which I didnt even know it was there, claiming he wasnt mad but...) I finally went down and he demanded the wheelchair in front of him, I kept telling him I didnt understand why if he wasn't going anywhere. He does not use the wheel chair in the home unless we push him because he has no strength, needs helping getting in it, cant see and the bigger one is tricky to fit through the doorways. He got mad and kicked me out! I called his daughter who has POA and she said just leave him alone, dont bother going down unless he calls you. I told a neighbor- tried a couple others to check on him. </p><p></p><p>So anyways, yes, Im in my late 30's and I know this is my last chance here. I talked to daughter already about possibility of moving out of town if we get kicked out of here, but also if I find a job elsewhere and shes fine with it!!! Son I will mention it soon when he is calm- it would be hard on him to switch schools as hes doing better there..and does not want to leave his school. But, time will tell. Im been looking for all sorts of jobs now <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> Thank you both <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>*** another question, I finally got some sleep buy why am I still so tired? Because of all the drama?Stress? It still feels like I dont get much even when I catch up a little.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 646477, member: 18100"] Well dad claims he doesn't want my help but needing little things now. Gpa called this morning to complain I didnt make new hot coffee for the lady coming in this morning at just after 5am. (I just made the pot yesterday and before I took over the other ladys time, they had to make coffee anyways) and complained I shouldn't wake my son up at 4am... So I reminded him we left last night at 11pm around and havent been back he got mad hung up. I locked the door last night so my dad went to unlock it for the lady after he called...and dad said it was unlocked. Gpa said he didnt unlock he claimed. Well I know I locked it. Anyways fast forward he called about his wheel chair wanting it in front of him making no sense, got mad that I didnt rush to get his wheelchair because I was in the middle of handling a tantrum with son.( son had broken a mug supposedly rolling it to hard to me which I didnt even know it was there, claiming he wasnt mad but...) I finally went down and he demanded the wheelchair in front of him, I kept telling him I didnt understand why if he wasn't going anywhere. He does not use the wheel chair in the home unless we push him because he has no strength, needs helping getting in it, cant see and the bigger one is tricky to fit through the doorways. He got mad and kicked me out! I called his daughter who has POA and she said just leave him alone, dont bother going down unless he calls you. I told a neighbor- tried a couple others to check on him. So anyways, yes, Im in my late 30's and I know this is my last chance here. I talked to daughter already about possibility of moving out of town if we get kicked out of here, but also if I find a job elsewhere and shes fine with it!!! Son I will mention it soon when he is calm- it would be hard on him to switch schools as hes doing better there..and does not want to leave his school. But, time will tell. Im been looking for all sorts of jobs now :) Thank you both :) *** another question, I finally got some sleep buy why am I still so tired? Because of all the drama?Stress? It still feels like I dont get much even when I catch up a little. [/QUOTE]
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