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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 646899" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>Thank you Scent Of Cedar, I will give it a try <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I go everyday unless Im to Ill , Or with kids and ask my dad/son to go. ( My son even though he can have such violent and mean hatred has his "other" personality where he is the most helpful smart little man and can help out, he has offered) My Aunt because I have been complaining about all my situation has made a few calls and she got the old caretaker back for a few hours.Long story. But I still have lunch, dinner and all night with gpa. I dont mind helping but as I said my situation changes from day to day as my dad is in the hospital, daughter refuses to go to gpas and says shes working on her homeschooling. Or when my son acts up, appts. But as my dad and others said" theres a reason they have Nursing homes in shifts, and its the person job, as you dont have one... " So some good points.</p><p></p><p>My Aunt used to come every 2 months, maybe 3 and stay 4 or so days. Now shes not working and says she cant handle him its to much on her blood pressure. ( She lives in another state as does the rest of my family..except a handful who lives in the same State but other cities) BUT many of these adults can afford to come and stay even a few days a month, swing by when they go on their fancy vacations. They all tell me" Your there, your younger, you can handle it, balance your kids and find a job( some say no job just care gpa)!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 646899, member: 18100"] Thank you Scent Of Cedar, I will give it a try :) I go everyday unless Im to Ill , Or with kids and ask my dad/son to go. ( My son even though he can have such violent and mean hatred has his "other" personality where he is the most helpful smart little man and can help out, he has offered) My Aunt because I have been complaining about all my situation has made a few calls and she got the old caretaker back for a few hours.Long story. But I still have lunch, dinner and all night with gpa. I dont mind helping but as I said my situation changes from day to day as my dad is in the hospital, daughter refuses to go to gpas and says shes working on her homeschooling. Or when my son acts up, appts. But as my dad and others said" theres a reason they have Nursing homes in shifts, and its the person job, as you dont have one... " So some good points. My Aunt used to come every 2 months, maybe 3 and stay 4 or so days. Now shes not working and says she cant handle him its to much on her blood pressure. ( She lives in another state as does the rest of my family..except a handful who lives in the same State but other cities) BUT many of these adults can afford to come and stay even a few days a month, swing by when they go on their fancy vacations. They all tell me" Your there, your younger, you can handle it, balance your kids and find a job( some say no job just care gpa)!! [/QUOTE]
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