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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 647279" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>That's what I mean. It's so unbelievable to think they knew what the words they said would cost their child, how what they said would change their own child, and said those weirdly toxic words, anyway. Cheap. Those were cheap, ugly shots.</p><p></p><p>And they were taken by adults, against children!</p><p></p><p>I swear, it does make my head spin when I think about it objectively.</p><p></p><p>Who would intentionally set out to weaken their own offspring?</p><p></p><p>It's counterproductive. Strong offspring go on through time. Weakened offspring die out and the genetic line does not go on through time.</p><p></p><p>But I am seeing it in my mother, and I am seeing it in my sister, to this day.</p><p></p><p>I don't even feel badly about what I am seeing. I cannot believe it is what it is sometimes, but now that I see them for who they are, it all seems to have so little to do with me.</p><p></p><p>It isn't that I don't care about them. I do. I don't wish them ill or poor or sad or anything like that. I just am so surprised by what I know, now.</p><p></p><p>And what I think I know now must be correct, because all the little pieces are falling into place.</p><p></p><p>Soon that will be a normal state of events, too. And then, I won't have to talk about them at all, anymore.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 647279, member: 17461"] That's what I mean. It's so unbelievable to think they knew what the words they said would cost their child, how what they said would change their own child, and said those weirdly toxic words, anyway. Cheap. Those were cheap, ugly shots. And they were taken by adults, against children! I swear, it does make my head spin when I think about it objectively. Who would intentionally set out to weaken their own offspring? It's counterproductive. Strong offspring go on through time. Weakened offspring die out and the genetic line does not go on through time. But I am seeing it in my mother, and I am seeing it in my sister, to this day. I don't even feel badly about what I am seeing. I cannot believe it is what it is sometimes, but now that I see them for who they are, it all seems to have so little to do with me. It isn't that I don't care about them. I do. I don't wish them ill or poor or sad or anything like that. I just am so surprised by what I know, now. And what I think I know now must be correct, because all the little pieces are falling into place. Soon that will be a normal state of events, too. And then, I won't have to talk about them at all, anymore. :O) Cedar [/QUOTE]
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