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Email from difficult child-- do I (how) respond?
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 619020" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Your boy certainly has some gall. He is trying to sift blame and turn attention from his wrongdoings. And certainly very passive aggressive. I find it interesting that he doesn't actually name anything you did wrong or what you should apogolise. Just some abstract, more than little, patronising encouragement to think what you have done wrong and apogolise it all (has he or someone who could have had input participated to twelve steps groups by the way, isn't that one of the steps slightly twisted?) It could be interesting to know what he considers your biggest blunders as his mom. We all make mistakes in relationships and parenting and apogolising those is not a bad idea especially if it brings some comfort to the other person, but he isn't actually naming much of the deeds you could maybe apogolise for but just trying to guilt you to admit that you have done everything wrong.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 619020, member: 14557"] Your boy certainly has some gall. He is trying to sift blame and turn attention from his wrongdoings. And certainly very passive aggressive. I find it interesting that he doesn't actually name anything you did wrong or what you should apogolise. Just some abstract, more than little, patronising encouragement to think what you have done wrong and apogolise it all (has he or someone who could have had input participated to twelve steps groups by the way, isn't that one of the steps slightly twisted?) It could be interesting to know what he considers your biggest blunders as his mom. We all make mistakes in relationships and parenting and apogolising those is not a bad idea especially if it brings some comfort to the other person, but he isn't actually naming much of the deeds you could maybe apogolise for but just trying to guilt you to admit that you have done everything wrong. [/QUOTE]
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