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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 485048" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>This is a very honest and heartfelt email. I hope I am wrong but... I think the things you say in it cannot be heard by an angry, hurting 13 year old. In 10, 20 years time, yes, but now I think she would not be able to step outside herself to that extent. Which makes things very difficult for you. Although you are "right" about the letting go, one cannot let go until one's grief, anger, whatever it is has been really heard and in some sense worked through. Does your difficult child see a therapist? Just sharing my honest opinion and I hope it does not offend. It would be interesting to know her response...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 485048, member: 11227"] This is a very honest and heartfelt email. I hope I am wrong but... I think the things you say in it cannot be heard by an angry, hurting 13 year old. In 10, 20 years time, yes, but now I think she would not be able to step outside herself to that extent. Which makes things very difficult for you. Although you are "right" about the letting go, one cannot let go until one's grief, anger, whatever it is has been really heard and in some sense worked through. Does your difficult child see a therapist? Just sharing my honest opinion and I hope it does not offend. It would be interesting to know her response... [/QUOTE]
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