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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 437928" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>At ANY age? I highly recommened ANGER management therapy where he learns HOW to deal with his <strong><em><u>own</u></em></strong> anger. The techniques he will learn will benefit him for life. It's not a bad idea that if you don't know what he's learning that you get a few therapy sessions as well so YOU know HOW to ALLOW him to deal with his anger. Some people are not good at ALLOWING people to deal. I was one of them. I didn't know how to just let Dude walk away. When he would blow up? I wanted to FIX it - NOT what you should do. You need to let them work it out, walk away, do their exercises and there are several. Go for a walk - and by that I don't mean huffing out the door into the night, slamming the door with NO warning or word of where they are going. There is protocal. He also had stress induced (by self) tensionoin then relieving body muscle and relaxation exercises that we both learned that I promise I could teach you here - and if you do them when you are angry? Then try to get up? You won't be able to lol. Dude uses that one a lot when he thinks he's going to go hurt someone. </p><p></p><p>Also - I read a fantastic book called How to talk to teens so they will listen and how to listen to teens so they will talk. It is a phenominal book on Effective communication - and HIGHLY worth every cent you pay to learn how and what to say and when - It was literally worth it's weight in gold in communication with difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 437928, member: 4964"] At ANY age? I highly recommened ANGER management therapy where he learns HOW to deal with his [B][I][U]own[/U][/I][/B] anger. The techniques he will learn will benefit him for life. It's not a bad idea that if you don't know what he's learning that you get a few therapy sessions as well so YOU know HOW to ALLOW him to deal with his anger. Some people are not good at ALLOWING people to deal. I was one of them. I didn't know how to just let Dude walk away. When he would blow up? I wanted to FIX it - NOT what you should do. You need to let them work it out, walk away, do their exercises and there are several. Go for a walk - and by that I don't mean huffing out the door into the night, slamming the door with NO warning or word of where they are going. There is protocal. He also had stress induced (by self) tensionoin then relieving body muscle and relaxation exercises that we both learned that I promise I could teach you here - and if you do them when you are angry? Then try to get up? You won't be able to lol. Dude uses that one a lot when he thinks he's going to go hurt someone. Also - I read a fantastic book called How to talk to teens so they will listen and how to listen to teens so they will talk. It is a phenominal book on Effective communication - and HIGHLY worth every cent you pay to learn how and what to say and when - It was literally worth it's weight in gold in communication with difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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