Even my precious kind loving kids dont always tell me a lot about what is going on with them. I know this is because they dont want me to worry. But our grown kids slso want to have privacy. If there is a problem they are more apt to tell me in detail, but more for comfort than to ask for financial help. That they dont do although at times we have surprised them with stuff.
I would never have my kids sit in on financial stuff. Nor do we need to know their finances. They are adults.
I am glad your daughter is trying to monitor her behavior. Hopefully she is sincere and will sustain. Dont set yourself up for a broken heart. Guard yourself and dont believe she has changed a lot so quickly and without help. Or you could be in for a huge broken heart and none of us want that for you.
I dont live in the same state as two of my kids. You can certainly move for peace of mind.
Love and light,!
