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Sorry if I was confusing. Its never appropriate, professional, ethical or in any way acceptable for a financial professional to talk to anyone about anything but that person's issues. Not acceptable to say who is or is not a client much less any info about them. No different than doctor or attorney. Period. I submit its just a matter of interpretation as to what "you don't have to worry" means. Could mean they came to talk about bankruptcy today but that doesn't affect you. I submit that asking a financial professional to anticipate what your child will or will not take from that sentence is beyond his / her skill set. Maybe "talk to them" is a better answer. Maybe saying that would cause concern for a son or daughter. I submit no perfect answer but professional did nothing wrong. My feeling.