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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 740636" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Tomorrow is Oct 1 and today my daughter came over with the FULL amount that she owes us for the month. For now I feel relief because I did not want to sell the home she lives in or deal with renters. It is the first time she has made her rent and other money she owes us in over a year. I think she sensed that this was the final warning, that there would be no more covering her or helping her with any financial problems. She told me that her boyfriend does not live with her, she has a roommate now and I know the boyfriend is there most of the time since her neighbors tell me. My daughter is working 2 jobs so she could support her boyfriend and herself. I have no idea why a highly educated woman would want to take care of a 43 year old man like he was a baby. All of that does not matter now since she made her bills so as long as she looks healthy, happy and is paying her bills I have no business in her business and I truly do not want to be in her business. It was during a time when she was doing ok that I got suckered into putting my name on things to help her but I have learned my lesson and just because she is doing well for the time being, I still will not put my name on anything with her's. With my daughter's disorder she is ok for a while and then it comes crashing down. I sometimes relax when things are good and now I try to relax when things are bad because she lives on that constant roller coaster ride. Today I worked on my patience while she talked non stop about politics. She is the expert, she has the deepest inside information to what is happening and it keeps her paranoid. Today I worked on just enjoying her presence, she cannot talk to me without lying at least 10 times. I worked on my patience with that, today I just let it fly, I do believe she is not capable of talking without lying, it is second nature. I am kind to her, I let her know that I have missed her, hugged and kissed her and watched her drive off. She looked different driving off, her face looked different. She took a bath and had clean hair and clothes on. I get tired of looking at her not bathed. She has showers at her home plus the gyms she goes to has many, there is no excuse for her to not shower regularly. She sensed that we were ready to take drastic messures had she not paid her bills. Very soon my name will be off all that is connected to her.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 740636, member: 22416"] [I]Tomorrow is Oct 1 and today my daughter came over with the FULL amount that she owes us for the month. For now I feel relief because I did not want to sell the home she lives in or deal with renters. It is the first time she has made her rent and other money she owes us in over a year. I think she sensed that this was the final warning, that there would be no more covering her or helping her with any financial problems. She told me that her boyfriend does not live with her, she has a roommate now and I know the boyfriend is there most of the time since her neighbors tell me. My daughter is working 2 jobs so she could support her boyfriend and herself. I have no idea why a highly educated woman would want to take care of a 43 year old man like he was a baby. All of that does not matter now since she made her bills so as long as she looks healthy, happy and is paying her bills I have no business in her business and I truly do not want to be in her business. It was during a time when she was doing ok that I got suckered into putting my name on things to help her but I have learned my lesson and just because she is doing well for the time being, I still will not put my name on anything with her's. With my daughter's disorder she is ok for a while and then it comes crashing down. I sometimes relax when things are good and now I try to relax when things are bad because she lives on that constant roller coaster ride. Today I worked on my patience while she talked non stop about politics. She is the expert, she has the deepest inside information to what is happening and it keeps her paranoid. Today I worked on just enjoying her presence, she cannot talk to me without lying at least 10 times. I worked on my patience with that, today I just let it fly, I do believe she is not capable of talking without lying, it is second nature. I am kind to her, I let her know that I have missed her, hugged and kissed her and watched her drive off. She looked different driving off, her face looked different. She took a bath and had clean hair and clothes on. I get tired of looking at her not bathed. She has showers at her home plus the gyms she goes to has many, there is no excuse for her to not shower regularly. She sensed that we were ready to take drastic messures had she not paid her bills. Very soon my name will be off all that is connected to her.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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