Your daughter sounds a lot like mine - also diagnosed borderline. She had a great boyfriend for a while but he couldn’t take it anymore. I saw him months after they broke up and he gave me a big hug, got teary and said he was so sorry it didn’t work. It’s been years and I still miss him! Ever since it’s been a string of users, abusers and addicts. Sadly I don’t get to pick for her!
Mine has trouble with bathing when she’s not doing well, also.
I’m glad you’re successfully getting untangled emotionally and financially. I know how hard it is. Hopefully your daughter will continue taking steps towards more independence.
