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Enco w 15 year old - at my wits end
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 618944" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm sorry, but, although it probably doesn't seem like it to you, you are the one in the wrong here in my opinion. This child is obviously dealing with serious problems that are beyond his control. I don't know if he has been diagnosed with anything yet, but I have trouble believing a fifteen year old who is a normal kid is soiling all over the house.</p><p></p><p>This isn't about you, really. It's about the child. You knew he was like this when you married Dad. Dad says he's doing all he can. It may or may not be fixable, but why don't you join him in trying to find a medical solution? Does his son have autistic spectrum disorder? Sensory Integration Disorder (SID)? He must have a diagnosis. This is not about his diet. Most teens have horrible diets and don't soil their pants.</p><p></p><p>At this point, you can't force this child to be able to control himself. Your options are limited, such as leaving your husband...not sure what else to tell you. I"m sorry you are feeling pain from this. I'm sure SS is too. I agree with your husband. Leave SS alone about it. If you make him choose between you and his son, he will likely choose his son.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 618944, member: 1550"] I'm sorry, but, although it probably doesn't seem like it to you, you are the one in the wrong here in my opinion. This child is obviously dealing with serious problems that are beyond his control. I don't know if he has been diagnosed with anything yet, but I have trouble believing a fifteen year old who is a normal kid is soiling all over the house. This isn't about you, really. It's about the child. You knew he was like this when you married Dad. Dad says he's doing all he can. It may or may not be fixable, but why don't you join him in trying to find a medical solution? Does his son have autistic spectrum disorder? Sensory Integration Disorder (SID)? He must have a diagnosis. This is not about his diet. Most teens have horrible diets and don't soil their pants. At this point, you can't force this child to be able to control himself. Your options are limited, such as leaving your husband...not sure what else to tell you. I"m sorry you are feeling pain from this. I'm sure SS is too. I agree with your husband. Leave SS alone about it. If you make him choose between you and his son, he will likely choose his son. [/QUOTE]
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