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<blockquote data-quote="GuideMe" data-source="post: 640460" data-attributes="member: 18233"><p>Hi Meghan,</p><p></p><p>Welcome to the forum. I read every word and I can relate to a lot of it. Your daughters have no right to disrespect you and it seems like Shay is a master manipulator and has somehow turned everyone against you. Even if you do have borderline personality disorder, it doesn't give anyone the right to use it against you. Ask yourself this and then ask them this "Do they ever bring up the Borderline (BPD) when they are getting their way?" I will bet every last dime I have in my bank account the answer would be NO. I bet you they only bring it up when they are <strong><em><u>not</u></em></strong> getting their way. So what does that tell you? It tells you that in this situation, no one say with a straight face that you have BDP and by the way , they sound so foolish saying this because since when did they become doctors? They must think very highly of themselves huh? So ridiculous. I must say, it's really angering me just the thought of these little girls abusing you with this, I could only imagine how you feel. Your daughter Sharron should be ashamed of herself to use her mom in a report for school, even if it were true that you had Borderline (BPD). No self respecting young woman would dime her mother out that way and trust me, people will not think highly of her. And she brings up the Borderline (BPD) on Facebook? Wow, again, that's crossing all kinds of boundaries and in the end, makes her look bad. <em><strong><u>You don't talk about your mother that way, period.</u></strong></em></p><p></p><p>The only thing to do is when your youngest is finished HS, I would say bye bye Charlie to both of them! I would make them regret the day the decided to team up against you like this, especially the youngest. You are going to have to be very tough and not allow them back into your lives until they plead and grovel for your forgiveness, and even then I would consider shutting the door right in their faces one last time. None of this will work though if you are even remotely soft. What they did to you WAS and IS a big deal. Telling everyone you have Borderline (BPD)? This is not a game. How dare they. I'm sorry for being harsh, but someone has to. I truly feel bad for you. It's not right. Prayers are with you through this hard time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="GuideMe, post: 640460, member: 18233"] Hi Meghan, Welcome to the forum. I read every word and I can relate to a lot of it. Your daughters have no right to disrespect you and it seems like Shay is a master manipulator and has somehow turned everyone against you. Even if you do have borderline personality disorder, it doesn't give anyone the right to use it against you. Ask yourself this and then ask them this "Do they ever bring up the Borderline (BPD) when they are getting their way?" I will bet every last dime I have in my bank account the answer would be NO. I bet you they only bring it up when they are [B][I][U]not[/U][/I][/B] getting their way. So what does that tell you? It tells you that in this situation, no one say with a straight face that you have BDP and by the way , they sound so foolish saying this because since when did they become doctors? They must think very highly of themselves huh? So ridiculous. I must say, it's really angering me just the thought of these little girls abusing you with this, I could only imagine how you feel. Your daughter Sharron should be ashamed of herself to use her mom in a report for school, even if it were true that you had Borderline (BPD). No self respecting young woman would dime her mother out that way and trust me, people will not think highly of her. And she brings up the Borderline (BPD) on Facebook? Wow, again, that's crossing all kinds of boundaries and in the end, makes her look bad. [I][B][U]You don't talk about your mother that way, period.[/U][/B][/I] The only thing to do is when your youngest is finished HS, I would say bye bye Charlie to both of them! I would make them regret the day the decided to team up against you like this, especially the youngest. You are going to have to be very tough and not allow them back into your lives until they plead and grovel for your forgiveness, and even then I would consider shutting the door right in their faces one last time. None of this will work though if you are even remotely soft. What they did to you WAS and IS a big deal. Telling everyone you have Borderline (BPD)? This is not a game. How dare they. I'm sorry for being harsh, but someone has to. I truly feel bad for you. It's not right. Prayers are with you through this hard time. [/QUOTE]
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