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Every interaction escalates to a blow up fight..what do we do, not talk to difficult child ever?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 598266" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>What makes you think he is being manipulative? He may just be being Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), which can be annoying. </p><p></p><p>in my opinion you do need to stop listening to whoever is making you think your son is just a mean, rude kid, whether it's your mom or other parents or yourself! He is different and he needs a different form of parenting. Have you ever joined a chapter for parents of autistic kids? We did and it taught us a lot! ALL of the kids were not mean...but socially inappropriate. Seems they either just hung by their parents and didn't talk much at all and would only play with their siblings or they were louder than life and bright and unknowingly in people's faces or too loud and unknowingly annoying (that is putting it mildly). A few pre-teens were shouting embarassing things to the lifeguards at a pool we went to once. They weren't being smart alecks either. They may have "known" they shouldn't do it, but they couldn't seem to figure out how to communicate better. </p><p></p><p>Starting with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) supports, heavy on the social skills, can be helpful to some Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) kids. At least they can learn to mimic more typical behavior. A small percentage do tend to learn from their peers, to a point. But don't count on it. It doesn't always happen. So it's best to get therapy with a person who is used to and very understanding of how Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) kids think so that the child can learn from somebody who "gets it." </p><p></p><p>Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a big part of Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) in many kids. So is repetition. It *can* be a stimulant to keep on talking and talking. It isn't just to drive you nuts <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 598266, member: 1550"] What makes you think he is being manipulative? He may just be being Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), which can be annoying. in my opinion you do need to stop listening to whoever is making you think your son is just a mean, rude kid, whether it's your mom or other parents or yourself! He is different and he needs a different form of parenting. Have you ever joined a chapter for parents of autistic kids? We did and it taught us a lot! ALL of the kids were not mean...but socially inappropriate. Seems they either just hung by their parents and didn't talk much at all and would only play with their siblings or they were louder than life and bright and unknowingly in people's faces or too loud and unknowingly annoying (that is putting it mildly). A few pre-teens were shouting embarassing things to the lifeguards at a pool we went to once. They weren't being smart alecks either. They may have "known" they shouldn't do it, but they couldn't seem to figure out how to communicate better. Starting with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) supports, heavy on the social skills, can be helpful to some Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) kids. At least they can learn to mimic more typical behavior. A small percentage do tend to learn from their peers, to a point. But don't count on it. It doesn't always happen. So it's best to get therapy with a person who is used to and very understanding of how Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) kids think so that the child can learn from somebody who "gets it." Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a big part of Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) in many kids. So is repetition. It *can* be a stimulant to keep on talking and talking. It isn't just to drive you nuts :) [/QUOTE]
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