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Expanding on Anger/Detachment/LaLaLa...I struggle with DETACHMENT vs OWNERSHIP VENT
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 561863" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Vent away, throw a tantrum, at times it helps to get you from the moment to the next. So does glass full of vodka. </p><p></p><p>Yeah, they do not fix it, but nothing does.</p><p></p><p>It is not fair that your child is a difficult child and that he doesn't bring you mostly joy like other people children or your other children.</p><p></p><p>I'm not new to this role. My difficult child started to teach me to be difficult child's mom nineteen years and some months ago. And before that I have already gathered quite a lot of experience of being a child (and a friend) of difficult children. Still I would like to throw a tantrum at times. Because it is not fair that my child gives me so much worry. That he is not a constant source of pride and joy like some kids, that even his triumphs are always bitter sweet and that I can't fix him even though I would know so well, what he should do differently to be fixed.</p><p></p><p>And no, when I feel like that, I don't want to hear how I'm lucked out in how well my difficult child in fact is surviving, how much worse things could be and how lucky I am to have easy child to give me those experiences of parenting success.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 561863, member: 14557"] Vent away, throw a tantrum, at times it helps to get you from the moment to the next. So does glass full of vodka. Yeah, they do not fix it, but nothing does. It is not fair that your child is a difficult child and that he doesn't bring you mostly joy like other people children or your other children. I'm not new to this role. My difficult child started to teach me to be difficult child's mom nineteen years and some months ago. And before that I have already gathered quite a lot of experience of being a child (and a friend) of difficult children. Still I would like to throw a tantrum at times. Because it is not fair that my child gives me so much worry. That he is not a constant source of pride and joy like some kids, that even his triumphs are always bitter sweet and that I can't fix him even though I would know so well, what he should do differently to be fixed. And no, when I feel like that, I don't want to hear how I'm lucked out in how well my difficult child in fact is surviving, how much worse things could be and how lucky I am to have easy child to give me those experiences of parenting success. [/QUOTE]
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