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When I started Miss KT on Ritalin (after having tried everything else I could think of), my former mother in law sent me a letter saying I was "poisoning the child", and also sent me I don't know how many books about alternative ways to deal with behavior, but really the whole thing was my fault since I had divorced her wonderful son...grrrrr! All you can do is what you feel is best. Former mother in law is still in denial about Miss KT's issues, and about her son being wonderful!