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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 145347" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Susie, </p><p> </p><p>I think this is a basket B case...basically a basket case period. He's prone to fits of amnesia due to black out drinking...so you can either accept him and move on or look him right in the face and tell him that DESPITE what ever he has had going on in HIS past - YOU will NO LONGER tolerate him yelling at you in any fashion, way, shape or form. Either he starts treating you with respect - or he can bug off. </p><p> </p><p>Then walk away from him. If he treats you with respect the next time you meet - FINE - continue a relationship</p><p> </p><p>If he treats you with a nasty mouth and yelling - Look at him and say "I did NOT give you permission to talk to me like that." and walk off. </p><p> </p><p>I wouldn't offer him anything else free - Free cycle it. As far as your niece - if you have something for her - I wouldn't ask his freaking permission to give her a gift. (unless it's alive, poops, or has a flammability factor) Give it to her - if HE doesn't want her to have it - let HIM take it from her. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 145347, member: 4964"] Susie, I think this is a basket B case...basically a basket case period. He's prone to fits of amnesia due to black out drinking...so you can either accept him and move on or look him right in the face and tell him that DESPITE what ever he has had going on in HIS past - YOU will NO LONGER tolerate him yelling at you in any fashion, way, shape or form. Either he starts treating you with respect - or he can bug off. Then walk away from him. If he treats you with respect the next time you meet - FINE - continue a relationship If he treats you with a nasty mouth and yelling - Look at him and say "I did NOT give you permission to talk to me like that." and walk off. I wouldn't offer him anything else free - Free cycle it. As far as your niece - if you have something for her - I wouldn't ask his freaking permission to give her a gift. (unless it's alive, poops, or has a flammability factor) Give it to her - if HE doesn't want her to have it - let HIM take it from her. Hugs Star [/QUOTE]
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