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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 515934" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>I agree Star, my ex shows no remorse, takes no responsiblity. What always amazed me was, after not knowing where is he was for 2 years and leaving me to raise 2 small children on my own (which except for the financial part was heaven compared to what we had been living in) he just shows up on my doorstep as if nothing had happened!</p><p></p><p>He had been living with another woman and told her I was his sister keeping his kids. They were to marry on Valentine's Day and we were not divorced. I had to call the police to get him out. He pulled a knife and was going to fight the police. All of this in front of my kids! Then the fool called me collect from the jail. I just don't think so lol!!!</p><p></p><p>The time he was gone gave me a chance to see I could live without him, and my life was better. His girlfriend's mother called me and started calling me names, when I told her the truth she didn't want her daughter to marry him. But she did anyway, she was my witness for the divorce lol!!!!</p><p></p><p>I knew he was going to treat her the same way, only took 3 months and he had picked up someone in a bar and wifie tries to committ suicide on the streets, he left her there and someone called the police.</p><p></p><p>They were married for about 8 years, and off and on both of them would call me and ask if I was happy. My reply was always, 'very happy!!!!'. I can't imagine what prize this man thinks he is that I would ever go through that again.</p><p></p><p>I was very guilt ridden and it was never mentioned in counseling. When my son was in his teens and my daughter in her 20's I apologized to both for marrying him. I said he was not like that when I married him. As I got older I realized he had always used drugs and he hid it from me.</p><p></p><p>My child had a crappy childhood, but he also has had so many chances to turn it around. After his dad left our lives we so much better, then he decided to be an 'out of control' kid at an early age. He has to do this for himself.</p><p></p><p>I still say God should have made us with auto birth control and after passing a 'child rearing test' we could have it removed, say when we are in our late 30's lol!!!!</p><p></p><p>I forgot to add, my ex grew up in a large family, the parents were close to 40 when he was born, extremely religious. So who knows what causes them to turn out as they do other than themselves. Their choices!!!</p><p></p><p>(((blessings and forgivness to us all)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 515934, member: 13558"] I agree Star, my ex shows no remorse, takes no responsiblity. What always amazed me was, after not knowing where is he was for 2 years and leaving me to raise 2 small children on my own (which except for the financial part was heaven compared to what we had been living in) he just shows up on my doorstep as if nothing had happened! He had been living with another woman and told her I was his sister keeping his kids. They were to marry on Valentine's Day and we were not divorced. I had to call the police to get him out. He pulled a knife and was going to fight the police. All of this in front of my kids! Then the fool called me collect from the jail. I just don't think so lol!!! The time he was gone gave me a chance to see I could live without him, and my life was better. His girlfriend's mother called me and started calling me names, when I told her the truth she didn't want her daughter to marry him. But she did anyway, she was my witness for the divorce lol!!!! I knew he was going to treat her the same way, only took 3 months and he had picked up someone in a bar and wifie tries to committ suicide on the streets, he left her there and someone called the police. They were married for about 8 years, and off and on both of them would call me and ask if I was happy. My reply was always, 'very happy!!!!'. I can't imagine what prize this man thinks he is that I would ever go through that again. I was very guilt ridden and it was never mentioned in counseling. When my son was in his teens and my daughter in her 20's I apologized to both for marrying him. I said he was not like that when I married him. As I got older I realized he had always used drugs and he hid it from me. My child had a crappy childhood, but he also has had so many chances to turn it around. After his dad left our lives we so much better, then he decided to be an 'out of control' kid at an early age. He has to do this for himself. I still say God should have made us with auto birth control and after passing a 'child rearing test' we could have it removed, say when we are in our late 30's lol!!!! I forgot to add, my ex grew up in a large family, the parents were close to 40 when he was born, extremely religious. So who knows what causes them to turn out as they do other than themselves. Their choices!!! (((blessings and forgivness to us all))) [/QUOTE]
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