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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 112669" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>For the first part of this year, we had an in-home behavior therapist. He probably wasn't always politically correct, but some of his ideas have been effective. He's big into logical consequences as difficult child has trouble making connections, anyway, so everything has to be a natural consequence for there to be any hope he'll "get it". </p><p></p><p>Anyway, a big problem was hitting me in the vehicle and then going for the door handle to get out while you're barreling down the highway at 70mph (he can get out of every car seat we've tried). So IHBT said ok, let him out. Beat on mom = you're not with mom anymore. At first I put him out of the truck a lot (and never for very long), but it didn't take long to get the message, and its a rare occurrence now. </p><p></p><p>I've just never had to do it in front of other people, and I'm sure I'll be the talk of the coffee shop in the morning. </p><p></p><p>And the whole time I kept thinking "maybe I should just forget this! What if the cops come or someone turns me in?" I've never been so worried about that before! Wow.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 112669, member: 1848"] For the first part of this year, we had an in-home behavior therapist. He probably wasn't always politically correct, but some of his ideas have been effective. He's big into logical consequences as difficult child has trouble making connections, anyway, so everything has to be a natural consequence for there to be any hope he'll "get it". Anyway, a big problem was hitting me in the vehicle and then going for the door handle to get out while you're barreling down the highway at 70mph (he can get out of every car seat we've tried). So IHBT said ok, let him out. Beat on mom = you're not with mom anymore. At first I put him out of the truck a lot (and never for very long), but it didn't take long to get the message, and its a rare occurrence now. I've just never had to do it in front of other people, and I'm sure I'll be the talk of the coffee shop in the morning. And the whole time I kept thinking "maybe I should just forget this! What if the cops come or someone turns me in?" I've never been so worried about that before! Wow. [/QUOTE]
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