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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 238386"><p>I know you are all right. Just not having a good couple days. Then to always be yelled at no matter what just makes me feel so bad. Especially when they say I start everything, and I enjoy it. I hate difficult child hating me. I miss being his mom, and not the bad guy. And I hate having to do this all alone. You are correct to say husband does nothing in this. </p><p> </p><p>I did tell difficult child that what is going on between dad and myself is not for him to worry about.</p><p> </p><p>Still, I get all the blame, i get all the yelling...Is it worth it? To have your son hate you?</p><p> </p><p>And Yes, He gets up every single morning (school days too) and goes directly to the computer to play his stupid game. After school he goes directly to the computer. husband will ASK him when he is going to do homework. I TELL him. (I am not always home)</p><p>Then I find out that difficult child tells husband it is done and it is not. difficult child then goes right back to the computer game.</p><p>On weekends, 8 or 9am he is playing on the computer. Sometimes for 8 or more hours.</p><p> </p><p>He is sad because all his friends go to the district school, he is feeling left out. They all make plans with their little group, but difficult child is not included. Different school, out of the loop. Then he cries. I DO feel bad, but sitting infront of the computer for 8 hours a day is NOT going to make things better. Plus he has put on a lot of weight since last summer.</p><p> </p><p>As for husband - I can't even think or come up with how I think about him. Not now. But I DO need my son. The harder I try to have a structured house, the more he hates me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 238386"] I know you are all right. Just not having a good couple days. Then to always be yelled at no matter what just makes me feel so bad. Especially when they say I start everything, and I enjoy it. I hate difficult child hating me. I miss being his mom, and not the bad guy. And I hate having to do this all alone. You are correct to say husband does nothing in this. I did tell difficult child that what is going on between dad and myself is not for him to worry about. Still, I get all the blame, i get all the yelling...Is it worth it? To have your son hate you? And Yes, He gets up every single morning (school days too) and goes directly to the computer to play his stupid game. After school he goes directly to the computer. husband will ASK him when he is going to do homework. I TELL him. (I am not always home) Then I find out that difficult child tells husband it is done and it is not. difficult child then goes right back to the computer game. On weekends, 8 or 9am he is playing on the computer. Sometimes for 8 or more hours. He is sad because all his friends go to the district school, he is feeling left out. They all make plans with their little group, but difficult child is not included. Different school, out of the loop. Then he cries. I DO feel bad, but sitting infront of the computer for 8 hours a day is NOT going to make things better. Plus he has put on a lot of weight since last summer. As for husband - I can't even think or come up with how I think about him. Not now. But I DO need my son. The harder I try to have a structured house, the more he hates me. [/QUOTE]
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