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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 749853" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is the response: (not to him)</p><p></p><p>I have value as does every other human being. I will not allow myself to be abused, insulted, degraded. From this day forward. By anybody.</p><p></p><p>Everybody has a life story. Second by second we have the opportunity to change everything. It is the choice that we make right now, that will remake us. Accepting the right now as the opportunity that it is. (Thank you for that book, Busy.) No more. No less.</p><p></p><p>Your son is abusing you. Every single minute offers you a choice to change that. We are beaten down today not because we were abused cumulatively in the past. We are beaten down because we allow ourselves to be beat. Today.</p><p></p><p>This is not about your son and what he does. It is about what you are tolerating and apparently on some level think you deserve. I am no different than you. </p><p></p><p>Everybody needs support. Why not try Al Anon or Codependents Anonymous?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 749853, member: 18958"] This is the response: (not to him) I have value as does every other human being. I will not allow myself to be abused, insulted, degraded. From this day forward. By anybody. Everybody has a life story. Second by second we have the opportunity to change everything. It is the choice that we make right now, that will remake us. Accepting the right now as the opportunity that it is. (Thank you for that book, Busy.) No more. No less. Your son is abusing you. Every single minute offers you a choice to change that. We are beaten down today not because we were abused cumulatively in the past. We are beaten down because we allow ourselves to be beat. Today. This is not about your son and what he does. It is about what you are tolerating and apparently on some level think you deserve. I am no different than you. Everybody needs support. Why not try Al Anon or Codependents Anonymous? [/QUOTE]
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