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Thank you. I guess that is why I dont feel good about this. I dont want to enable anymore and when he lives with me it makes it harder. I guess in a way this is progress. Before I would get very defensive about it. It must have been because I still felt the need. I no longer do. This has been the one positive of having him live with me again. It got me to see the cycle clearly anf there has been some change.

I dont want to enable begging. I know exactly what you mean.