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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 685412" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Hey YF, so glad that things are working out for you and your son. It is wonderful that he has his own place to stay, and you no longer feel like a prisoner in your home.</p><p></p><p>I was going through your thread and was intrigued by the difference in a few weeks with your lovely wife.</p><p> So here, stepmom was ready to leave with son there.......</p><p>.......... and here she wanted him to stay till the months end.</p><p> This is what some of us have gone through. It is called triangulation. Our d cs will figure out who is the most likely to give in to their pleas, and focus on manipulating that person. It is so interesting that it turned out to be step-mom, who was fed up with the whole situation.</p><p>In my case it is my hubs that caves, I am the "enforcer".</p><p>So, my two are more likely to talk with their dad, and keep me at bay.</p><p></p><p>Good job in having your son cross that threshold to being responsible for his choices and life.</p><p></p><p>I hope you keep posting and let us know how you are doing.</p><p></p><p>leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 685412, member: 19522"] Hey YF, so glad that things are working out for you and your son. It is wonderful that he has his own place to stay, and you no longer feel like a prisoner in your home. I was going through your thread and was intrigued by the difference in a few weeks with your lovely wife. So here, stepmom was ready to leave with son there....... .......... and here she wanted him to stay till the months end. This is what some of us have gone through. It is called triangulation. Our d cs will figure out who is the most likely to give in to their pleas, and focus on manipulating that person. It is so interesting that it turned out to be step-mom, who was fed up with the whole situation. In my case it is my hubs that caves, I am the "enforcer". So, my two are more likely to talk with their dad, and keep me at bay. Good job in having your son cross that threshold to being responsible for his choices and life. I hope you keep posting and let us know how you are doing. leafy [/QUOTE]
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