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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 721859" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>feeling. a short reply for now. </p><p></p><p>each of you are watching the other fearing he will die or wants to die. watching eachother for signs of illness, that the worst is happening. thank g-d for the dog who cannot participate in this energy and who seems in his oblivion to be turning the tide.</p><p>how wonderful.</p><p></p><p>your son seems to be walking through his pain. there are newish therapies that focus on just this, movement.</p><p></p><p>what are you going to do?</p><p></p><p>i am beset by sadness too much of the time. i talk to the rabbi every week or two. i am learming brasilian jiu jitsu, trying to walk an hour most days (fail), and now am involving myself with a congregation a few hours away to study over the next year for a bat mitzah (or at least to understand the basics of my faith ).</p><p></p><p>i believe my struggle internally is very like yours. i fill the void with agony either projecting into the future or back in the past. both are huge vats of horror for me.</p><p></p><p>i will aim to try to stay in each moment to avoid the compulsive story making. by breathing and learning to just be to learn to tolerate being empty (or present) for a few seconds at a time. which i guess is detachment. </p><p></p><p>i thing we have a chance to let go of our horror stories. which it sounds like middle son is doing. so pleased for him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 721859, member: 18958"] feeling. a short reply for now. each of you are watching the other fearing he will die or wants to die. watching eachother for signs of illness, that the worst is happening. thank g-d for the dog who cannot participate in this energy and who seems in his oblivion to be turning the tide. how wonderful. your son seems to be walking through his pain. there are newish therapies that focus on just this, movement. what are you going to do? i am beset by sadness too much of the time. i talk to the rabbi every week or two. i am learming brasilian jiu jitsu, trying to walk an hour most days (fail), and now am involving myself with a congregation a few hours away to study over the next year for a bat mitzah (or at least to understand the basics of my faith ). i believe my struggle internally is very like yours. i fill the void with agony either projecting into the future or back in the past. both are huge vats of horror for me. i will aim to try to stay in each moment to avoid the compulsive story making. by breathing and learning to just be to learn to tolerate being empty (or present) for a few seconds at a time. which i guess is detachment. i thing we have a chance to let go of our horror stories. which it sounds like middle son is doing. so pleased for him. [/QUOTE]
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