I have read the bipolar child and the explosive child and many more - we've been seeing a psychiatrist for the past four and a half years. However, sometimes I feel like I know less now than I thought I did. I think sometimes the medications he is given that we have tried, many we have tried, are maybe not the best and they are based on our experience and opinions that may not be as clear as they should be. He really doesn't get in trouble at school for bad behavior but he has a hard time with math and being organized is IMPOSSIBLE. When I refer to him as stable, all I mean, is that we don't have the rages all day long. He is very strong willed but doesn't get physically violent and really really angry. He is much better that way. What to do what to do.