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<blockquote data-quote="everywoman" data-source="post: 227323" data-attributes="member: 1436"><p>husband and I had one account for the first 15 years of our marriage. I never paid a bill and for a while didn't even know where the bank was. Then, the ugly addiction took over, and things changed drastically. In order to survive, I had to open my own account. He had too many overdrafts and they would have eaten up all of my check. When he left treatment, we kept it that way. We split the bills percentage wise. I make more money...I pay the mortgage, car insurance, all the big bills. He pays the car payments, cable, lights, and minor bills. We each contribute to the food. I was so burned by his deception, that I could never go back to the way things were. I know that if anything were to ever happen again, I could support myself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="everywoman, post: 227323, member: 1436"] husband and I had one account for the first 15 years of our marriage. I never paid a bill and for a while didn't even know where the bank was. Then, the ugly addiction took over, and things changed drastically. In order to survive, I had to open my own account. He had too many overdrafts and they would have eaten up all of my check. When he left treatment, we kept it that way. We split the bills percentage wise. I make more money...I pay the mortgage, car insurance, all the big bills. He pays the car payments, cable, lights, and minor bills. We each contribute to the food. I was so burned by his deception, that I could never go back to the way things were. I know that if anything were to ever happen again, I could support myself. [/QUOTE]
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