Again, I just want to thank everyone for the overwhelming responses and support. This place really is a soft spot to land!
Susie, Marguerite, and MidwestMom, you all have great thoughts, and I so appreciate them. I have showed my hubby everything, and we do both feel better about everything. We have a lot of great ideas, and I think everything will be okay with the school once we all sit down and communicate. Unfortunately, this teacher is inflexible, but hopefully he'll have someone more understanding next year. His speech and Occupational Therapist (OT) people are great. The Occupational Therapist (OT) person even gave me a sensory brush and showed me techniques, which I use to this day when he's upset and just to help him desensitize. Teachers do have a very tough job, that's for sure.
Thanks again, and I will keep you posted.
StressBunny