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First time posting, son 31, heroin addict, living at home, sober and stable for months, then not
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 730611" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I kind of look at the evidence. I am a big believer in "actions speak louder than words." You can tell truth from a lie by your son's actions.</p><p></p><p>Forget his words. Words are cheap. Our difficult offspring try to twist us around until we are so confused that we give in to them. Ignore the words. Don't engage in nonsense conversations.</p><p></p><p>See your son's behavior. That's how he is living his life. Your b.s. meter seems like it's in good working order to me. in my opinion your son is too old to be living with you or expecting your support. Do you want him to be 40 years old and living in your basement? Is that good for you? For him? I personally think they need to get out and sink or swim. We can't live forever.</p><p></p><p>I think you and your husband need professional counseling to get a plan of action and to get on the same page. You sound lost and guilty. Many here used professional help. Be kind to yourself and do it. You deserve the help and support of a therapist.</p><p></p><p>Welcome to the board.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 730611, member: 1550"] I kind of look at the evidence. I am a big believer in "actions speak louder than words." You can tell truth from a lie by your son's actions. Forget his words. Words are cheap. Our difficult offspring try to twist us around until we are so confused that we give in to them. Ignore the words. Don't engage in nonsense conversations. See your son's behavior. That's how he is living his life. Your b.s. meter seems like it's in good working order to me. in my opinion your son is too old to be living with you or expecting your support. Do you want him to be 40 years old and living in your basement? Is that good for you? For him? I personally think they need to get out and sink or swim. We can't live forever. I think you and your husband need professional counseling to get a plan of action and to get on the same page. You sound lost and guilty. Many here used professional help. Be kind to yourself and do it. You deserve the help and support of a therapist. Welcome to the board. [/QUOTE]
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