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First time posting, son 31, heroin addict, living at home, sober and stable for months, then not
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 730704" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am reading with interest this thread and want to comment upon one thing, of so much that is profound and real.</p><p></p><p>Patty, this is to you. While I understand your therapist empathizes with you in your marriage, and it was from that place that she spoke that she does not understand why you stay....I want to speak for an understanding of relationship that is different than hers. </p><p></p><p>We seek each of this in our life to sing our own unique song, and to share it and be heard by others. From this understanding we seek not to change the other but to hear him, and to give voice and be heard.</p><p></p><p>Your husband from everything you write sounds like a tender, loving, responsible and constant man. Most of all, you have heart for him. You hear his song. As he does for you, it seems. It is this to which new leaf speaks about her own marriage.</p><p></p><p>There is a lot of wisdom in this thread.</p><p></p><p>It is a terrible ache to have an Ill child. It eats us up. Sometimes we cannibalize ourselves and our mates to rid ourselves of the torment. It does not help. We just end up missing parts.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 730704, member: 18958"] I am reading with interest this thread and want to comment upon one thing, of so much that is profound and real. Patty, this is to you. While I understand your therapist empathizes with you in your marriage, and it was from that place that she spoke that she does not understand why you stay....I want to speak for an understanding of relationship that is different than hers. We seek each of this in our life to sing our own unique song, and to share it and be heard by others. From this understanding we seek not to change the other but to hear him, and to give voice and be heard. Your husband from everything you write sounds like a tender, loving, responsible and constant man. Most of all, you have heart for him. You hear his song. As he does for you, it seems. It is this to which new leaf speaks about her own marriage. There is a lot of wisdom in this thread. It is a terrible ache to have an Ill child. It eats us up. Sometimes we cannibalize ourselves and our mates to rid ourselves of the torment. It does not help. We just end up missing parts. [/QUOTE]
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