Thanks, Jerri!
Your know-how has really been invaluable.
We're headed for a big "pow-wow" next week with foster parents, therapist, psychiatric worker, case worker, etc., and I'm going to try and get something to have ready for the meeting. I'm fighting desperately to at least have difficult child get some time with a counselor or Special Education person at school, since he can't be in a gifted class right now.
Wish me luck!!