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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 362217" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>They do have a child. The main reason that it bothers me is that bro and xsil make husband,all three kids and I very uncomfortable. My younger two cannot have a three sentence chat with either of my parents before my niece is sent to show/tell something to my parents. If I say more than "Oh, that's nice" my bro or xsil will either verbally attack me in a very aggressive way or they will physically put themselves between us so that I cannot speak.</p><p></p><p>At first I thought I was dreaming it. Finding mountains where there aren't even molehills. Then I was seated at dinner (buffet style) and my chair was moved, with me in it, first so that xsil could sit between my father and I (and we were talking), then I was moved again so I was not sitting next to my mom. Even the very oblivious thank you has noticed it. He is sick of having to keep niece from jumping on him or getting with-in three inches of his face or ear and shrieking. husband and I are the only ones who tell her to stop. Her parents ignore it, saying it doesn't bother thank you (IF they notice it at all). Gpa would stop it if he saw it, but niece doesn't do that in front of him.</p><p></p><p>My dad is annoyed but won't say anything because my mom would hit the roof. My mom, well, bro cannot really do wrong and I cannot really do right. At least in regards to my side of the family. </p><p></p><p>If bro and xsil were not purposely acting to make us highly uncomfortable their lives would not bug me. I see all the damage xsil has done to the family and to my husband and kids. I see no changes in her behavior and nothing trustworthy about her. If my mom and/or bro think I am less than happy to have her around then they say all manner of ugly things to me and to husband. I really resent that. xsil is an amazing manipulator. I doubt any of our difficult children are better.</p><p></p><p>Thanks. I know I am venting a lot. Trying to sort some feelings out and figure out how to handle things.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 362217, member: 1233"] They do have a child. The main reason that it bothers me is that bro and xsil make husband,all three kids and I very uncomfortable. My younger two cannot have a three sentence chat with either of my parents before my niece is sent to show/tell something to my parents. If I say more than "Oh, that's nice" my bro or xsil will either verbally attack me in a very aggressive way or they will physically put themselves between us so that I cannot speak. At first I thought I was dreaming it. Finding mountains where there aren't even molehills. Then I was seated at dinner (buffet style) and my chair was moved, with me in it, first so that xsil could sit between my father and I (and we were talking), then I was moved again so I was not sitting next to my mom. Even the very oblivious thank you has noticed it. He is sick of having to keep niece from jumping on him or getting with-in three inches of his face or ear and shrieking. husband and I are the only ones who tell her to stop. Her parents ignore it, saying it doesn't bother thank you (IF they notice it at all). Gpa would stop it if he saw it, but niece doesn't do that in front of him. My dad is annoyed but won't say anything because my mom would hit the roof. My mom, well, bro cannot really do wrong and I cannot really do right. At least in regards to my side of the family. If bro and xsil were not purposely acting to make us highly uncomfortable their lives would not bug me. I see all the damage xsil has done to the family and to my husband and kids. I see no changes in her behavior and nothing trustworthy about her. If my mom and/or bro think I am less than happy to have her around then they say all manner of ugly things to me and to husband. I really resent that. xsil is an amazing manipulator. I doubt any of our difficult children are better. Thanks. I know I am venting a lot. Trying to sort some feelings out and figure out how to handle things. [/QUOTE]
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