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"For every 'negative', find 2 positives."
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 172615" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I had a hard time with this one. I didn't want to track how many negative things and "bean count" so it was 2 nice to 1 neg. Idiot therapist at the time told Wiz that it should be that ratio. So HE tracked it and would get all bossy and "you said X negatives and 2x-1 positive" so we discontinued that. We simply focused on being better "bosses" - we have all had bad bosses and know how miserable they made us, so we worked to be good bosses of Wiz and the other kids. But that was us. and our bean counting Wiz. We did learn that he did not register any positives we said to him, only ones we said to other people while he was there. So we would fake phone calls to people to say nice things.</p><p> </p><p>Good luck with this!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 172615, member: 1233"] I had a hard time with this one. I didn't want to track how many negative things and "bean count" so it was 2 nice to 1 neg. Idiot therapist at the time told Wiz that it should be that ratio. So HE tracked it and would get all bossy and "you said X negatives and 2x-1 positive" so we discontinued that. We simply focused on being better "bosses" - we have all had bad bosses and know how miserable they made us, so we worked to be good bosses of Wiz and the other kids. But that was us. and our bean counting Wiz. We did learn that he did not register any positives we said to him, only ones we said to other people while he was there. So we would fake phone calls to people to say nice things. Good luck with this! [/QUOTE]
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