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For my sis: What happens to a relationship once you meet his kids?
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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 474969" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>I will pretzel for her!</p><p></p><p>If the kids already know they're dating, it might not be so bad - they'll be somewhat ready for it. Yes, there will be changes - and exactly what really depends on the kids. If they like her, or are at least willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, things with him <em>might</em> start to move faster. If not... That could be a huge deal-breaker.</p><p></p><p>husband made it very clear to me that he was a package deal. In fact our first date was 8 years ago tonight. Haunted house, with the kids. Second date - bowling. With the kids. It wasn't till our third date that we were alone. And he made it crystal that if the kids hadn't liked me that bowling would never have happened.</p><p></p><p>And even so - our dynamic changed, too. It's hard to quantify, since we went from - living separately, kids every other weekend and Weds. for 3 hours - to - living together, then add kids every weekend (including every other Thursday) - then married, and in a house - then kids living with us, visiting bio mom every other weekend, Weds. for 3 hours, then Tues. & Thurs. 3 hours, then only Jett going, now Onyxx out and bio gone. It's a constant shift...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 474969, member: 6705"] I will pretzel for her! If the kids already know they're dating, it might not be so bad - they'll be somewhat ready for it. Yes, there will be changes - and exactly what really depends on the kids. If they like her, or are at least willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, things with him [I]might[/I] start to move faster. If not... That could be a huge deal-breaker. husband made it very clear to me that he was a package deal. In fact our first date was 8 years ago tonight. Haunted house, with the kids. Second date - bowling. With the kids. It wasn't till our third date that we were alone. And he made it crystal that if the kids hadn't liked me that bowling would never have happened. And even so - our dynamic changed, too. It's hard to quantify, since we went from - living separately, kids every other weekend and Weds. for 3 hours - to - living together, then add kids every weekend (including every other Thursday) - then married, and in a house - then kids living with us, visiting bio mom every other weekend, Weds. for 3 hours, then Tues. & Thurs. 3 hours, then only Jett going, now Onyxx out and bio gone. It's a constant shift... [/QUOTE]
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