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<blockquote data-quote="mum2JK&amp;TH" data-source="post: 90601" data-attributes="member: 1784"><p>Is it at all possible that you are causing her to push you away? I only ask this because my mum does something similar. I love my mother dearly and she is a huge help to us. But with that comes expectations that we are always supposed to return the favor somehow even if it's something we don't really want to do. There are times (and it's funny that I read this post now as I am going through this at this very moment) that I feel choked. She has to be so involved in my life that it ends up that I push her away because I feel suffocated. I am truly grateful for all that she does but I need my own life with my own family and she doesn't allow that at times. The guilt and the pressure actually causes a strain on our relationship. Maybe you are unknowingly doing that to her.</p><p>I hope I haven't offended you because you sound like my mum and I am sure your daughter would be lost without you but because your always there she probably never gets a chance to realize that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mum2JK&TH, post: 90601, member: 1784"] Is it at all possible that you are causing her to push you away? I only ask this because my mum does something similar. I love my mother dearly and she is a huge help to us. But with that comes expectations that we are always supposed to return the favor somehow even if it's something we don't really want to do. There are times (and it's funny that I read this post now as I am going through this at this very moment) that I feel choked. She has to be so involved in my life that it ends up that I push her away because I feel suffocated. I am truly grateful for all that she does but I need my own life with my own family and she doesn't allow that at times. The guilt and the pressure actually causes a strain on our relationship. Maybe you are unknowingly doing that to her. I hope I haven't offended you because you sound like my mum and I am sure your daughter would be lost without you but because your always there she probably never gets a chance to realize that. [/QUOTE]
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