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Fraternal Twin with conduct disorder, just devastated
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<blockquote data-quote="rebjoh" data-source="post: 695234" data-attributes="member: 20520"><p>Thank you all so much. It was difficult to write about her but I cried when I read some of your responses. I have felt so alone and not understood for so long. I am just so grateful for 1 response; I feel like Tom Hanks in Castaway with my cat instead of a soccer ball. You all get it. For an update, I hit bottom with her last night. I thought I had many times over the past few months but nothing compares to the scope of this. Its over. Well and truly over. I have no more false hopes for her. Shes on her own. She posted a picture of her father on Facebook who had molested when she was 5-6 and emotionally traumatized them. He told them he was going to kill me or kidnap them and take them away to where I could never find them. She called him her daddy, said she loved and missed him like crazy. I and the local police dept and childrens advocacy fought for months to get his rights suspended which they are to this day. She doesnt have amnesia, she went through this with her twin sister. Years of therapy and me being there to love her through the aftermath and this is where it ends up. Self-destructive, manipulative, delusional. There has been no contact with him for years. I just feel so betrayed. She is deliberately turning her back on me and is happy about it. He is also a serial rapist and the experts called him a sexual predator. I have to go talk to somebody today, I feel like I just got the obituary notice for the little girl I raised with such love and tenderness. My heart goes out to any one who has got through this emotional funeral I am going through today. All I need is a tombstone and a shovel. I'm clinging to the Promises. Lord have Mercy on us all.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rebjoh, post: 695234, member: 20520"] Thank you all so much. It was difficult to write about her but I cried when I read some of your responses. I have felt so alone and not understood for so long. I am just so grateful for 1 response; I feel like Tom Hanks in Castaway with my cat instead of a soccer ball. You all get it. For an update, I hit bottom with her last night. I thought I had many times over the past few months but nothing compares to the scope of this. Its over. Well and truly over. I have no more false hopes for her. Shes on her own. She posted a picture of her father on Facebook who had molested when she was 5-6 and emotionally traumatized them. He told them he was going to kill me or kidnap them and take them away to where I could never find them. She called him her daddy, said she loved and missed him like crazy. I and the local police dept and childrens advocacy fought for months to get his rights suspended which they are to this day. She doesnt have amnesia, she went through this with her twin sister. Years of therapy and me being there to love her through the aftermath and this is where it ends up. Self-destructive, manipulative, delusional. There has been no contact with him for years. I just feel so betrayed. She is deliberately turning her back on me and is happy about it. He is also a serial rapist and the experts called him a sexual predator. I have to go talk to somebody today, I feel like I just got the obituary notice for the little girl I raised with such love and tenderness. My heart goes out to any one who has got through this emotional funeral I am going through today. All I need is a tombstone and a shovel. I'm clinging to the Promises. Lord have Mercy on us all. [/QUOTE]
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