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I would worry Dad was sexually or otherwise abusing him. I would. Or somebody who visits him.


But havi g said that, my own son is winding up family court for his ten year old and his mother and step dad definitely abuse hum. My grand still screams when he has to see Mom. But the courts demand proof of abuse. And our little guy talking to a court appointed psychologist didnt change anything. So I know how hard it is to get custody changes. My grandson is too scared of his step dad to tell everything to anyone excet my son and my son gets told that his son has to say it and even then he is probably too young to be believed with no proof.


They have bruised him but say he fell down, hurt himself etc. They are too smart to mark him up badly but he is locked in his room with no dinner etc. But cant be proven. They tell everyone their son is a liar so who will believe him?


My son got a new lawyer and progress is finally being made....baby steps. She believes the abuse. Now we see if she can change anything.


Sadly your little boy is so young and courts tend to want parents to see their kids unless it is proven a risk.


I feel really bad for you and your son. You may want to at least try a lawyer if you can afford one. I know how expensive they are. My ex pays my sons legal bills or he would have no lawyer and my son makes a lot of money but  a lot goes to child support, childcare, medical, his mortgage, orthodontics etc.


Try to hang in there. I feel very bad for you and your son. You are a GOOD mother. Dont think its you. Ever.


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