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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 751773" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>What bothers me is if she didn’t sometimes break the rules , this would be an easy no brainer. And if she were nice to people, it also would help. She was so blessed to have the HOA president on her side. This woman , who is an unusually strict and self disciplined woman ....by some miracle, looked past the oddities that is our daughter. Didn’t judge her by her clothing and things many many people tend to judge her for. She was kind and patient. And jumped to her defense when the extremely mean and disordered person downstairs picked on her. So....you would think our daughter would of been appreciative or grateful. No. Such things don’t seem to exist in the world of our kids. Instead, she continued to break rules and picked fights with this woman who was her friend, her defender and even more interesting a woman in authority who could help her out and did help her out repeatedly. So, even though the HOA president loathed the guy downstairs and was doing everything in her power to help our daughter, she is so furious right now with our daughter for breaking rules and being out right mean to her, she walked away and won’t defend her and she is in a very bad situation at the moment. We told her repeatedly that we would help her and we did and together with the HOA president, she was in fairly good shape and that it was a blessing to have this woman on her side and as an understanding friend too. Why would she be mean to a friend helping her? Somehow the tables have turned. She (HOA President) might think the guy downstairs is very unwell (we know she thinks this) but if he doesn’t break rules and leaves her alone she can tolerate it better than our daughter’s issues...Yes, it was a difficult situation to be sure, but all she had to do was call the HOA president who lives on the property and she would come to her defense in a heartbeat. This helped a lot. But when our daughter breaks rules and was mean to the woman, things changed. It makes no sense. </p><p>We are so frustrated.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 751773, member: 4152"] What bothers me is if she didn’t sometimes break the rules , this would be an easy no brainer. And if she were nice to people, it also would help. She was so blessed to have the HOA president on her side. This woman , who is an unusually strict and self disciplined woman ....by some miracle, looked past the oddities that is our daughter. Didn’t judge her by her clothing and things many many people tend to judge her for. She was kind and patient. And jumped to her defense when the extremely mean and disordered person downstairs picked on her. So....you would think our daughter would of been appreciative or grateful. No. Such things don’t seem to exist in the world of our kids. Instead, she continued to break rules and picked fights with this woman who was her friend, her defender and even more interesting a woman in authority who could help her out and did help her out repeatedly. So, even though the HOA president loathed the guy downstairs and was doing everything in her power to help our daughter, she is so furious right now with our daughter for breaking rules and being out right mean to her, she walked away and won’t defend her and she is in a very bad situation at the moment. We told her repeatedly that we would help her and we did and together with the HOA president, she was in fairly good shape and that it was a blessing to have this woman on her side and as an understanding friend too. Why would she be mean to a friend helping her? Somehow the tables have turned. She (HOA President) might think the guy downstairs is very unwell (we know she thinks this) but if he doesn’t break rules and leaves her alone she can tolerate it better than our daughter’s issues...Yes, it was a difficult situation to be sure, but all she had to do was call the HOA president who lives on the property and she would come to her defense in a heartbeat. This helped a lot. But when our daughter breaks rules and was mean to the woman, things changed. It makes no sense. We are so frustrated. [/QUOTE]
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