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<blockquote data-quote="AllStressedOut" data-source="post: 70597" data-attributes="member: 3837"><p>Our idea last year was that we would send goodie bags with toy treats that we knew he'd love, like Spiderman things. We planned to do this this year.</p><p></p><p>I've tried to explain to him about his allergic reactions, that it is very serious and some people can actually die from eating things they're allergic to. I know, a little dramatic, but I was hoping to put the fear of God in him. I mean he is swelling and having hives and each reaction was worse than the previous one.</p><p></p><p>I emailed her earlier to ask about his behavioral problems and when they occurred. I was going to wait for her reply and email her this:</p><p></p><p>"difficult child's face looked a little puffy this afternoon so I asked him if he had eaten anything that he wasn't supposed to and he said Sean gave him a cupcake and you gave him a capri sun. I'm puzzled as to how this could happen. I was very specific that he has had allergic reactions to an unknown food, cake was even a food I listed as an example of the possible culprit. We even spoke last night about getting the 504 done quickly. In my email I was also very specific that he only eat foods we send and that he even be watched closely in the lunchroom to avoid him sneaking foods. I guess I'm just baffled, with all of this communication, some just last night, why he was given a cupcake and capri sun during class today. If his behavioral problems were after consuming this food, his blood sugar level could have attributed to it. I'm trying not to get upset over this, but this is partially why we transferred from (previous school name here). They too would give him food that we didn't provide as well as didn't watch him closely and he would sneak food. I honestly feel if this were your child, you would be upset too. This always seems like such a huge battle and all I'm asking is that he not be given anything I don't send and be watched carefully when in the lunchroom. I'm just trying to take care of my son, please understand."</p><p></p><p>What do you all think? I'm trying to be as calm and fact based as possible, but I'm still fuming. I was very specific he only eat what we send and she gave him the capri sun herself as she watched the boy give him a cupcake. I even listed cake as one of the things he reacted to. I'm just so frustrated with all of this!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AllStressedOut, post: 70597, member: 3837"] Our idea last year was that we would send goodie bags with toy treats that we knew he'd love, like Spiderman things. We planned to do this this year. I've tried to explain to him about his allergic reactions, that it is very serious and some people can actually die from eating things they're allergic to. I know, a little dramatic, but I was hoping to put the fear of God in him. I mean he is swelling and having hives and each reaction was worse than the previous one. I emailed her earlier to ask about his behavioral problems and when they occurred. I was going to wait for her reply and email her this: "difficult child's face looked a little puffy this afternoon so I asked him if he had eaten anything that he wasn't supposed to and he said Sean gave him a cupcake and you gave him a capri sun. I'm puzzled as to how this could happen. I was very specific that he has had allergic reactions to an unknown food, cake was even a food I listed as an example of the possible culprit. We even spoke last night about getting the 504 done quickly. In my email I was also very specific that he only eat foods we send and that he even be watched closely in the lunchroom to avoid him sneaking foods. I guess I'm just baffled, with all of this communication, some just last night, why he was given a cupcake and capri sun during class today. If his behavioral problems were after consuming this food, his blood sugar level could have attributed to it. I'm trying not to get upset over this, but this is partially why we transferred from (previous school name here). They too would give him food that we didn't provide as well as didn't watch him closely and he would sneak food. I honestly feel if this were your child, you would be upset too. This always seems like such a huge battle and all I'm asking is that he not be given anything I don't send and be watched carefully when in the lunchroom. I'm just trying to take care of my son, please understand." What do you all think? I'm trying to be as calm and fact based as possible, but I'm still fuming. I was very specific he only eat what we send and she gave him the capri sun herself as she watched the boy give him a cupcake. I even listed cake as one of the things he reacted to. I'm just so frustrated with all of this! [/QUOTE]
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