when my son told me to get used to hearing him say the F word all day...I let him move on and move out.
your son is problem too young to let him move out.
however you can still be the boss.
tell him to get used to you calling the cops if he does anything illegal and to get used to you not bailing him out.
he can also get used to you using the juvenile justice system to house him if he continues to introduce his brother to the drug culture.
dang it fight back. save your other son.
