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getting ready for neuropsychologist consult tomorrow...
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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 472485" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>"and she took off on her bike and told her little sis that she was going to the mall. She did change her mind and came back to the house before I got home."</p><p></p><p>THAT is very promising and good. Praise and emphasize these moments. in my opinion this type of incident should not be punished because she did see the error of her ways, and ultimately made the right choice. She had a delayed reaction, that's all.</p><p></p><p>No, during meltdowns there is no point in even attempting to argue or impose consequences. Need to wait until the meltdown is done and try to discuss it. For a while, if DD1 was willing to discuss things, I wouldn't impose a consequence. If she refused to discuss, then there was certainly a consequence. My logic was to get her to understand what was going on inside her to cause her to do this stuff and to assist in her own diagnosis and care. Of course, while DD1 could be explosive, she was not on the extreme end of volatile, so this worked for us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 472485, member: 11965"] "and she took off on her bike and told her little sis that she was going to the mall. She did change her mind and came back to the house before I got home." THAT is very promising and good. Praise and emphasize these moments. in my opinion this type of incident should not be punished because she did see the error of her ways, and ultimately made the right choice. She had a delayed reaction, that's all. No, during meltdowns there is no point in even attempting to argue or impose consequences. Need to wait until the meltdown is done and try to discuss it. For a while, if DD1 was willing to discuss things, I wouldn't impose a consequence. If she refused to discuss, then there was certainly a consequence. My logic was to get her to understand what was going on inside her to cause her to do this stuff and to assist in her own diagnosis and care. Of course, while DD1 could be explosive, she was not on the extreme end of volatile, so this worked for us. [/QUOTE]
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