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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 425324" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>You are in a parents worst nightmare. None of us want to ever think our kids would be in a position that they would not be able to take care of their kids and then we would be forced to take care of them. So many grandparents are living this bothway now. Its epidemic right now. So far we have able to avoid this completely although we did have Keyana quite a bit but Cory was mostly in our home when she was here. I am not as convinced that he will be able to be as able to do as well with this new baby especially with this new mother. We refuse to take on the role we took on with Keyana as a basically surrogate parent so he didnt have to be there constantly. Plus with the fact that we only had her part time anyway, well, he had a hobby, not a full time child. Both of Keyanas parents had hobbies not kids, the grandparents raised her! </p><p></p><p>We have already told Cory that now that he has found this new place to stay...which I paid for him to get out...he is out for good. He isnt coming back no matter what. I simply wont allow it. If something horrible happens and he and mandy end up on the streets, we will take the baby once for a few days. If it happens twice, we will take the baby full time with papers because I wont have this back and forth thing going on. Otherwise, it can go to foster care.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 425324, member: 1514"] You are in a parents worst nightmare. None of us want to ever think our kids would be in a position that they would not be able to take care of their kids and then we would be forced to take care of them. So many grandparents are living this bothway now. Its epidemic right now. So far we have able to avoid this completely although we did have Keyana quite a bit but Cory was mostly in our home when she was here. I am not as convinced that he will be able to be as able to do as well with this new baby especially with this new mother. We refuse to take on the role we took on with Keyana as a basically surrogate parent so he didnt have to be there constantly. Plus with the fact that we only had her part time anyway, well, he had a hobby, not a full time child. Both of Keyanas parents had hobbies not kids, the grandparents raised her! We have already told Cory that now that he has found this new place to stay...which I paid for him to get out...he is out for good. He isnt coming back no matter what. I simply wont allow it. If something horrible happens and he and mandy end up on the streets, we will take the baby once for a few days. If it happens twice, we will take the baby full time with papers because I wont have this back and forth thing going on. Otherwise, it can go to foster care. [/QUOTE]
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