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<blockquote data-quote="JJJ" data-source="post: 404032" data-attributes="member: 1169"><p>Just an update....</p><p></p><p>I spoke with our county caseworker and she said that this place is pushing another client to go to group home too quickly as well and she is concerned because the other child's parents don't have my warrior skills <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /> and are starting to cave in. She is calling the residential director to make it clear that neither of these two should be moved to group homes yet and that she doesn't care which unit has an open bed. She is also finding out which group homes and TLPs are currently covered by our grant. </p><p></p><p>I also spoke with the new therapist for the first time outside of a group meeting. It was a good conversation. She stated that Kanga has told her the same irrational stuff that she is telling us. When she reminds Kanga of her treatment goals, Kanga agrees that she wants those goals. Then she points out that her current 'plans' work against those goals and Kanga says 'but I want to do it". So basically, Kanga wants us to trust her so that she can go do whatever she wants with whomever she wants. She assured me that they will stop pushing for a transition to a group home, for now, since we are so opposed to it. </p><p></p><p>Meanwhile, Kanga reports that she got a PRV for a 'staff miscommunication": translated she manipulated staff. I haven't heard staff's side yet but it sounds like she was suppose to be in place A and went with a staff person to place B instead after lying to staff that she had permission to go. (PRV=24 hours on restriction). She spoke with husband yesterday and was totally off the wall, it was one of those conversations that he knew was going to go poorly from how she said hello <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> He's guessing that she won't be calling this weekend so that she can "punish" us for not letting her have her freedom.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JJJ, post: 404032, member: 1169"] Just an update.... I spoke with our county caseworker and she said that this place is pushing another client to go to group home too quickly as well and she is concerned because the other child's parents don't have my warrior skills ;) and are starting to cave in. She is calling the residential director to make it clear that neither of these two should be moved to group homes yet and that she doesn't care which unit has an open bed. She is also finding out which group homes and TLPs are currently covered by our grant. I also spoke with the new therapist for the first time outside of a group meeting. It was a good conversation. She stated that Kanga has told her the same irrational stuff that she is telling us. When she reminds Kanga of her treatment goals, Kanga agrees that she wants those goals. Then she points out that her current 'plans' work against those goals and Kanga says 'but I want to do it". So basically, Kanga wants us to trust her so that she can go do whatever she wants with whomever she wants. She assured me that they will stop pushing for a transition to a group home, for now, since we are so opposed to it. Meanwhile, Kanga reports that she got a PRV for a 'staff miscommunication": translated she manipulated staff. I haven't heard staff's side yet but it sounds like she was suppose to be in place A and went with a staff person to place B instead after lying to staff that she had permission to go. (PRV=24 hours on restriction). She spoke with husband yesterday and was totally off the wall, it was one of those conversations that he knew was going to go poorly from how she said hello :( He's guessing that she won't be calling this weekend so that she can "punish" us for not letting her have her freedom. [/QUOTE]
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