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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 752538" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I know how you feel. My precious son, my kindest child up until then, was twelve. He was handsome, very bright, atlhetic and a total lovebug. Even Kay liked him. That's a big deal. </p><p></p><p>When he was diagnosed with cancer he got very sick very fast, smiling and comforting us and talking to God until the end. He passed months later and died of an illness related to the cancer. We were not ready, not that we ever are. I felt as if I had died with him and Kay was so shaken that she behaved better for about a year. This child was the only sibling that Kay enjoyed. </p><p></p><p>As for Kay, she has been difficult from the start. We were told we could not have biological children so we happily adopted. We did not think of adoption as second best and we adored her.</p><p></p><p>Of course, the doctor was wrong and we had three biological children. After my son passed I had a few very bad years and once Kay got over being in shock over her brother's death, she started acting out again and my husband and I were not up to it. Maybe we made big mistakes with her in our grief, although we honestly tried to help her.</p><p></p><p>At any rate, as you know the loss of a child is always there. I am so sad for you. I also understand on a very deep level. God is my anchor. I talk to Him all the time. He has pulled me through all that life has thrown of me.</p><p></p><p>Blessings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 752538, member: 23706"] I know how you feel. My precious son, my kindest child up until then, was twelve. He was handsome, very bright, atlhetic and a total lovebug. Even Kay liked him. That's a big deal. When he was diagnosed with cancer he got very sick very fast, smiling and comforting us and talking to God until the end. He passed months later and died of an illness related to the cancer. We were not ready, not that we ever are. I felt as if I had died with him and Kay was so shaken that she behaved better for about a year. This child was the only sibling that Kay enjoyed. As for Kay, she has been difficult from the start. We were told we could not have biological children so we happily adopted. We did not think of adoption as second best and we adored her. Of course, the doctor was wrong and we had three biological children. After my son passed I had a few very bad years and once Kay got over being in shock over her brother's death, she started acting out again and my husband and I were not up to it. Maybe we made big mistakes with her in our grief, although we honestly tried to help her. At any rate, as you know the loss of a child is always there. I am so sad for you. I also understand on a very deep level. God is my anchor. I talk to Him all the time. He has pulled me through all that life has thrown of me. Blessings. [/QUOTE]
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