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Guilt - and getting over it.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 569768" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm really sorry you are going through this. I do want to tell you that my daughter, who was once VERY involved with drugs, told me that if you use drugs you also sell them. It is understood. Also, your son may be using a lot more than pot. My daughter also was hunted by some "bad" kids she owed money to...drug money. Eventually we kicked her out and she went her out of state to her brother's and she straightened out, but it was a bad stretch before that and the reason that people were after her was indeed drugs.</p><p>Our kids often make promises. I'd let him home after he kept those promises. I understand the hurt in your mommy heart and your desire to protect your son, but unless he is ready to totally renounced drugs and live a straight life, you can not help him. Only he can help himself. </p><p>I don't think it is worth it to ruin your marriage since your son has not proven anything to anyone, but whatever you decide to do, all of us will support your decision.</p><p>I suggest going to Narc-Anon. It will give you real time support. I do think you are dealing with more than just pot here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 569768, member: 1550"] I'm really sorry you are going through this. I do want to tell you that my daughter, who was once VERY involved with drugs, told me that if you use drugs you also sell them. It is understood. Also, your son may be using a lot more than pot. My daughter also was hunted by some "bad" kids she owed money to...drug money. Eventually we kicked her out and she went her out of state to her brother's and she straightened out, but it was a bad stretch before that and the reason that people were after her was indeed drugs. Our kids often make promises. I'd let him home after he kept those promises. I understand the hurt in your mommy heart and your desire to protect your son, but unless he is ready to totally renounced drugs and live a straight life, you can not help him. Only he can help himself. I don't think it is worth it to ruin your marriage since your son has not proven anything to anyone, but whatever you decide to do, all of us will support your decision. I suggest going to Narc-Anon. It will give you real time support. I do think you are dealing with more than just pot here. [/QUOTE]
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