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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 430536"><p>Yes I have gone through this and sometimes still do... what I have realizes though is that I did the absolute best I could at the time and in fact I don't know if I had done this or that differently if it really would make any difference. The thing is we can't go back and change the past, it is done, it is over... ALL we can do is to look forward and to hink about what is the best thing to do now.</p><p></p><p>I get the wanting to ask for forgiveness and someday there might be a place for a mutual conversation around that BUT right now it would be so easy for her to just get into oh this is my moms fault, if she hadn't...... and the fact is she needs to be accountable for herself now and you don't need to give her any excuse not to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 430536"] Yes I have gone through this and sometimes still do... what I have realizes though is that I did the absolute best I could at the time and in fact I don't know if I had done this or that differently if it really would make any difference. The thing is we can't go back and change the past, it is done, it is over... ALL we can do is to look forward and to hink about what is the best thing to do now. I get the wanting to ask for forgiveness and someday there might be a place for a mutual conversation around that BUT right now it would be so easy for her to just get into oh this is my moms fault, if she hadn't...... and the fact is she needs to be accountable for herself now and you don't need to give her any excuse not to. [/QUOTE]
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