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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 764041" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Dear Cora</p><p></p><p>I am chiming in to say you did exactly the right thing. For so many reasons. But all you needed was one: I don't want you to live with me.</p><p></p><p>What he proposes here is to deceive his parole officer. The address he provides to parole needs to be where he actually resides. This is because parole is supervised, and it is contingent upon good behavior. And parole means that he is technically still serving his sentence. He may no longer be locked up, but he could be, with one wrong move. That means even the suspicion of wrongdoing could be sufficient to revoke parole and to lock him up to finish the rest of the time on his sentence. The parole department needs a correct address so that they can come and inspect how he is living (unannounced) and in order to come and get him, if he violates the rules of parole or commits another crime.</p><p></p><p>So, he is trying to pull the wool over your eyes, to deceive you and to involve you in a fraud.</p><p></p><p>Good job. A re-entry program or rescue mission or the like is equipped to handle your son's reentry. Mothers are not. End of story.</p><p>These programs are usually run by recovering addicts and felons. They have a structured, rules-based and neutral program that is designed to work. Our children work us. That is the difference.</p><p></p><p> I am so glad you found us. You are doing great.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 764041, member: 18958"] Dear Cora I am chiming in to say you did exactly the right thing. For so many reasons. But all you needed was one: I don't want you to live with me. What he proposes here is to deceive his parole officer. The address he provides to parole needs to be where he actually resides. This is because parole is supervised, and it is contingent upon good behavior. And parole means that he is technically still serving his sentence. He may no longer be locked up, but he could be, with one wrong move. That means even the suspicion of wrongdoing could be sufficient to revoke parole and to lock him up to finish the rest of the time on his sentence. The parole department needs a correct address so that they can come and inspect how he is living (unannounced) and in order to come and get him, if he violates the rules of parole or commits another crime. So, he is trying to pull the wool over your eyes, to deceive you and to involve you in a fraud. Good job. A re-entry program or rescue mission or the like is equipped to handle your son's reentry. Mothers are not. End of story. These programs are usually run by recovering addicts and felons. They have a structured, rules-based and neutral program that is designed to work. Our children work us. That is the difference. I am so glad you found us. You are doing great. [/QUOTE]
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