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<blockquote data-quote="Vannin" data-source="post: 296594" data-attributes="member: 7840"><p>It is wonderful to be in a place where people understand. I love the term interlopers. It is all too easy for them to swoop in at this stage, and believe that they are "saving" our children and providing the good parenting that we obviously did not give them. My GFC is in the process of coming back after one of these episodes. First we had to put up with the little sermons from the interloper on how he was going to provide the structure for this kid, and now that the gfc has broken his trust by stealing, he is sending him back, and we still have the lectures suggesting that it is our fault. I have been in a black place today, but confess that I feel a sense of relief finding that there are other people dealing with the same thing - in this case your sister and her children - which I suppose is mean of me in a way. I should wish that I was the only one and no one else has to deal with this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Vannin, post: 296594, member: 7840"] It is wonderful to be in a place where people understand. I love the term interlopers. It is all too easy for them to swoop in at this stage, and believe that they are "saving" our children and providing the good parenting that we obviously did not give them. My GFC is in the process of coming back after one of these episodes. First we had to put up with the little sermons from the interloper on how he was going to provide the structure for this kid, and now that the gfc has broken his trust by stealing, he is sending him back, and we still have the lectures suggesting that it is our fault. I have been in a black place today, but confess that I feel a sense of relief finding that there are other people dealing with the same thing - in this case your sister and her children - which I suppose is mean of me in a way. I should wish that I was the only one and no one else has to deal with this. [/QUOTE]
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